Matt, I'm going to get a t-shirt made up that says, "Please, Please, Please don't end up like Tad" or a bracelet "PPPDT" (Tad's not so bad - just hasn't reached his limit yet to where he wants to make changes more than he wants to continue; he's almost there though...)
You could easily walk away from this with a head full of noodles.
I don't think that's the issue for you though. I think you've been dealing with "things" for a very long time. I think you're wrestling more with yourself than you are her leaving or being nutty or whatever. You have the mad skillz to deal with her shenanigans, don't you?
But I don't think we've really seen you look at you, yet. Some surface looks to sure. Some tactical looks to understand some (re)actions or other. But we don't know why you are so strongly attached to this woman, other than the 20 years you did time together
Care to share what the attraction has been? Why you didn't walk long ago? How'd you meet? What were you doing and what were you like when you met?
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
(Tad's not so bad - just hasn't reached his limit yet to where he wants to make changes more than he wants to continue; he's almost there though...)
