Here's what I came up with for the card. Just realizing I don't have much time bc I will see H shortly for kids games today so want to give it to him then for tomorrow. I kept it short and at this point opted not to include the apology. Felt like it somehow introduced a bit of a negative spin. Short and simple seemed better and I think gets my sentiments across, even without the apology. If anyone is online and has feedback would love to hear it!

"Dear H,
I am so thankful for our beautiful children and want you to know how much I appreciate what a good Dad you are. You are so committed to them and I’m really thankful that we’ve always shared a strong partnership in parenting. I am very grateful that you are their Dad.
I hope you have a wonderful Father’s day.
Love, MDU"


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14