Hi Maybell, thanks, I guess I am looking for co-parenting advice. I find it a bit ridiculous to discuss how to deal with S's lying with H when H has been such a liar. I don't know how to co-parent right now with someone whose values have been so far bent out of whack. I guess it does then lead to DBing questions. Since at the moment, as I am reminded of all H's lies, I'm not feeling very inspired to DB.


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14