You have a choice: submit to his choices or stand up and live for yourself.
Granted, the options available aren't great. It sounds like he's been eating cake for a long time and intends to continue eating cake. Don't you deserve a lot, lot better?
Do what you need to do to make your life what you want. Friends don't steamroll one another's needs. Florida in July isn't where I'd want to be either, but it's a hell of a lot better than limbo.
Be strong. Move on. He's not worth it. You've done enough.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
