URGENT advice needed - 3yrs separated, sky falling

[Ben2010]

I dont even know what to say about this situation. That is ridiculous. I dont see where you have a choice here but to move. He sounds very selfish and like an a$$hole. He made a commitment when he chose to marry you in the first place. Sounds like you are a safety net in this situation. I wish you the best of luck on this and hope you make the right choice, not that I see a good one at all.