Yeah I do appreciate that from her. It could be one of the best gifts ever.
Yes, you are going to be a better, happier you. Do you know how I know? Because I'm not longer the miserable SOB I was. I know where this can go, and it feels great, and I'm no where near done.
Originally Posted By: Ben2010
Im not sure about that last part that I put about the porn or not. I hope that isnt the case because then its just a whole new issue.
But now you can examine and explore it. You have the time. You can examine it.
Originally Posted By: Ben2010
Im going through an anger management workbook with my counselor right now. We are doing one module a week. It seems to help me understand it and be able to start to catch myself when I feel a bad reaction coming on. Im sure it will get better.
Awesome. Keep it up.
Originally Posted By: Ben2010
In other news I have decided to go to a cosmetic dentist and get my teeth fixed. The front 2 have always been an issue for me. They are crooked and keep me from wanting to smile and show my teeth. I think this could be a real confidence booster for me. The W always tried to make me feel better about them and tell me that no one notices them, but I notice them and this is for me.
That's great.
You are doing all the hard work. Keep it up. Think of NC as the opportunity for W to digest all this change.
me: 45 W:45 M 20 years T 22 years S14, S13, S11, D9 BD 2/28/14 D papers served 3/3/14 I moved out 3/15/14 MC start 4/2/14 I moved in 6/2/14 D suit withdrawn 6/30/14
