Then I must accept that. I can not change her will. All I can do is improve myself and be the best father I know how to be.
I do not / can not talk with her as all she does is cause me more pain. I've been told by family to let her have free access to the kids but set a boundary that we will not have any contact unless it's for the kids sake. She tries to rope me in with this too.
Last night I admit that I got a bit fed up. She kept calling about the same child issue and repeating the same things. Then she wanted to talk to me about a web article I emailed her about what and how to tell the S12. Finally I lost it and just came out and asked if she was happy. I said that I hoped she was and that I hoped her happiness was worth all the pain she was causing her family.
