What to do

[Ben2010]

Thanks Thorn, Im trying. At first I will admit I was doing this mostly for her. Then after much thought and consideration I decided that I need to make changes that I want to make not for her. Some of the changes I am making are also ones that she wants too though. The porn thing is a huge weight lifted off of my shoulders and IMO the thing that she hates the most. Im also trying to stop being critical of other people. I wont lie, I have been an a$$hole alot and very judgemental. I dont like this, so Im changing it. She has never really mentioned any problems with this, so another one that is just for me. It is very hard to stop myself from judging people because Ive been doing it for so long. Its a work in progress.