What to do

[Ben2010]

I was just saying that I would hope that she wouldnt for my sake lol. Im not even sure she is going to reach out for any help other than her family.

By escaping my unhappiness, I turned to online chatting. But sometimes people leave the MR b/c they are trying to get out of the unhappiness they feel.

This is what I think has happened here. We have turned in to roommates as of late and neither one of us like it.

She may get really angry at your changes, at first. It's typical b/c you waited until she left. It takes time for her to work through this stuff.

Well this one about me shopping was maybe a bit for her...I did want new clothes and I took your advice and got some new cologne, turns out its the same cologne her BIL who died last year wore...She was very close to him. I have also been making an effort to keep the house clean. Not that hard with just me, imagine that. But she still has not come by the house since she left so she wouldnt even see this yet. It does make me feel good to actually be clean instead of stacking up coke cans on the coffee table.



I hope you will get involved in some type of activity (hobby, friends, gym, etc.) that will get you out of the house.

Like I said earlier, I am trying to get my brother to start playing Frisbee Golf with me. He has never played and is not very athletic, but I think he will for me. I dont think its a good idea for me to go to the gym because of the incident where she saw me at the gym with another girl. I think it would rehash some bad memories for her. Instead I have Insanity at the house now just waiting to be used.