Originally Posted By: Barrybran
One book at a time Ben. 1Wish isn't ready for that one yet :-)

1Wish, I tend to agree with Ben that you may have a chance if you got yourself together. She sleeps in the same bed, she ML with you and you can touch her. These are all good things. You're more focused on what she says rather than what she does. The positive I was referring to was the positive interaction you had yesterday where you shelved the relationship talk and she chatted with you for a couple of hours. You can do it. You really can. You just have to focus and apply this stuff 24/7 instead of an hour or two of OK-to-good hours followed by a controlling text exchange.


Thanks for the encouraging words guys gives me hope.. I will do this I promise.. I just mess up on txts.. its like my paranoia kicks in when im not with her due to all the lies.

And may I point out that 1wish has read the 5 love language and got his other half to do the love language survey a few weeks back.. he has also read love must be tough as well as no More mr nice guy.. and how to stop your divorce.. yes 1wish has been very literature friendly recently.. those books I read in 3 days back to back as they were ebooks.. not making excuses for db honestly not.. those books stopped me from txting the W. As my time was occupied during work..


M: 25 W:22
Said she wanted a D March 2014

Everythings worked out for me for the best.