One book at a time Ben. 1Wish isn't ready for that one yet :-)
1Wish, I tend to agree with Ben that you may have a chance if you got yourself together. She sleeps in the same bed, she ML with you and you can touch her. These are all good things. You're more focused on what she says rather than what she does. The positive I was referring to was the positive interaction you had yesterday where you shelved the relationship talk and she chatted with you for a couple of hours. You can do it. You really can. You just have to focus and apply this stuff 24/7 instead of an hour or two of OK-to-good hours followed by a controlling text exchange.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014