1Wish, you're a young guy and you have a long life ahead of you. The way you're carrying on now, you don't have to worry about your wife because you won't have one for much longer. You'll have to worry about the string of broken relationships that follow because you're controlling and paranoid.
Depsite how much you've bombed out so far, you have actually done something right and got positive results. What I don't understand is how you've not been able to put two and two together: you chase, she runs... you back off, she's more more friendly towards you. As strange and complicated as it seems, it's a very simple science.
Come on, time to pull your head in. You CAN do it.
Finish the book!!!
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014