I'm just not sure whether I'm the bad guy or the good guy, lol.
Sure you know, and don't forget it!
I'm sorry, but even when women KNOW the LBH is a good man.....and the OM can't measure up, it doesn't cause attraction for her. She sees you being the better dad and better provider. She sees you as much better security. But she clearly is attracted to that sorry excuse for a man.
One thing that will eat at her is the fact he ran around and had an A with a M woman with children. If that doesn't cause her concern about a future with him, what would? She is headed for a bad life with him. I hope you can see yourself as the survivor in this mess. In my opinion, you are the winner and she just chose a looser.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
