"The OM is married, and what [censored] is that my wife and his wife are best friends."
Does the OM's W know?
It sounds like you were skipping around the DB book rather than reading the whole thing. You have to read it all in order understand the concepts. Do that ASAP.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.