JBNATI: I used to run Marathon's and now I feel like this M is a sprint. Anyway, you wrote, "...Sad to say, often times my S will visit and she will sleep into the afternoon. Her house is cluttered. She doesn't get out and do too much. She spends a lot of time on dating sites according to my S. It's sad, it's almost like she's looking for someone else to fix her rather than taking on the responsibility herself. frown" I caught this and think you might be onto her and that she will be like others, wake up and know she went on her journey and found herself at the end. That's what I hope happens to your ?xW. She is trying to find happiness and seems depressed by the way you're describing her situation. You never know what will happen next. That is for sure.
Owl - I honestly think she's been depressed for years. I think part of has been from things that happened before the M, part because of the M, and I'm sure her physical stature plays a part as well - she's very overweight and has struggled with her weight her entire life. I can't even begin to imagine what her daily struggles are with that. As we're coming to the finish line though, she seems determined to see the D through. It's almost like it's a box she needs to check before she can move forward with her life.
