"The third time's lucky. "

[cczamo]

TL72, yes!! my H DID choose my cousin as he did not personally know another atty. We are not getting separate attorneys as we never co-mingled our separate property-only the house, and I bought him out at end of March. As a CPA i know what I'm doing. I insisted on a prenup (which angered him at the time, but now is to his advantage).

Your exH possibly losing his job (if thats indeed what happened) is not rare in the MLCer. In fact, i've read on these forums a former MLC'r FavoriteWierdo said losing his job probably triggered him to start moving OUT of his MLC and refocus more on his W, ButterflyMom. They eventually reconciled, I believe.
Would you be prepared if something like that were to happen with your exH?

My own stbXH mentioned last week that he might be joining me on Cobra because layoffs might be coming at his employer, and he could be one of them. In past few months he has been so angry at world that he has even been angry at his work, mentioning that he would not mind being laid off or fired. He's acting out on yet another of the 4 pillars of MLC: changing their home, their M relationship, their body, and their career. My H has all 4.