Everyone on this board has been lied to by their spouse. You still need to get yourself under control.
What is the worst case scenario for you? That you wife is sleeping with someone else?
Okay, assume that she is. Is that a deal breaker?
If it is not a deal breaker, than calm down. Focus on yourself. You already admitted that you treated your W like crap during your M. If you continue to treat her like crap (which you are doing in your texting sessions) then she is going to run for the hills if she is smart. You need to become a better man and give her some space.
