fwiw, I don't read much -- if anything -- in HS's post and 25's that even contradicts the other. HS said "to her" (indicating a wayward's mindset), and similarly instructed the OP to work on himself.

Where's the disagreement? I'm not seeing it. confused


Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
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