Leaving your h alone is FANTASTIC yet simple advice. I may sound harsh, however I will present a different perspective.
In regards to the 18 yr old, honestly anything is possible. Will it work between the two? Probably not. Like I said, anything is possible though. However, I wouldn't spend much time on that. Why? Because if it doesn't work 3 months from now or 3 years from now, you still have to live your life. And your boys are only this age. (And you:) one time.
Live your live and let your h live his. In the long run, one of you will probably much happier with the choices made.
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3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
