Continuing my DB'ing journey...

[woundedfool]

So my DB coach really just kind of told me to just not talk to H and act as if. Do not pursue and leave him be because right now he is I'm am addiction with this teenager. I really thought I would get more advice to be honest. She said she feels confident things won't last with the teenager but for me NOT to pack his things. And to just leave him be.

This is very good advice. Heed it.

I am guessing you didn't get more advice, because this is a pretty big bullet point, nothing else will fall into place until you:

1. Believe it (to let him be)
2. Follow it (actually let him be, let him succeed or fail on his own).

Keep maintaining your distance, and stay the course (detachment and acting "as if").

She said she feels confident things won't last with the teenager

Everyone who has posted about 18girl here believes it. I am just not sure if you believe it.

It is not up to you, or us to "rescue" your H (or 18girl) from the upcoming fall. But it will happen. Side note: and when it does, it probably will not play too well with his boss.