Very good advice from above you cannot rationalize with crazy.
Quick story for you. Do you know how many times I've been called irrational in my life? 0. My h post BD said he had "no idea how I could function being so rational." This was between sobs. I could not believe. What I was watching.
I try to limit communication with him. Once in a while he will send me a text that says "I want to discuss this calmly and rationally." Do you know what I always say to myself? H must be sending a representative to this discussion.
Step away from the crazy train. Don't delve in bat$h!t. You will feel better. Hang in there!
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer