I just have to keep telling myself that I am fixing the problems I need to be fixed ... Well working on it. And he most certainly is not. His own mother just flew in a few days ago and is staying with the boys and I. He has no clue he's here. He told her to F*** off back in March and stay out of his life. He didn't acknowledge her for Mother's Day or her birthday. She isn't sure if she will see him or not and I told her it is up to her but I would prefer it to not be at my house or not with the boys (just incase things go south)
So my DB coach really just kind of told me to just not talk to H and act as if. Do not pursue and leave him be because right now he is I'm am addiction with this teenager. I really thought I would get more advice to be honest. She said she feels confident things won't last with the teenager but for me NOT to pack his things. And to just leave him be.
