We're all rooting for you. And for a woman to bolt this early in the marriage, well...
I'm thinking maybe she did you a favor AND OR she's very confused. You dated from when she was quite young, correct?
Anyhow, you're right to focus only on YOU and YOUR LIFE now.
When the anniversary comes up, you will wonder what to do.
If you had children, I'd put a photo of the lives your m created and say something like "it's still worth remembering"
and or, "we did a lot of GOOD things..." and leave it at that.
But you don't and it was an issue for you. So I'd probably leave it alone.
But don't be shocked if she gets lonely and since OM is away, she may reach out.
Like with a text or something.
FWIW, by this time next year, she'll be done with OM. Or he with her.
The only question for you however, is What will YOUR LIFE be like?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
