I just wanted to say... Not ignoring your question, but a little stumped. On the one hand, I like pilot's suggestion. On the other, it's such a charged subject that I don't see how you could acknowledge it casually.

So I lean towards.... It's been five days and you would otherwise have let it go, so maybe the moment has passed?

But hopefully a vet arrives to offer more qualified advice than mine.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.