Thank you all for the kind words. Its been 4 months since she filed and i'm trying to do everything right. She says she sees the change in me but she says she doesn't believe it will last. I don't know what else to do to show her that I'm changed. Ive read the DB book, signed up for Mort Fratel's Marriage Fitness and I'm seeing a counselor. Basically saying, I'm taking strides I've never taken before.