Like a moth to flame

[zew]

Yup, we all fall into the same trap. We want to do something.

And we all think that our case is special, and there must be something we can do, even though everyone is telling us that we can't.

Well, here's the thing. YOU CAN'T FIX HER. The absolute best thing you can do is to figure out how you will get along without her.

And not because we think you are doomed, but because getting that feeling of independence, and the confidence that that exudes really is your best shot.

The sooner she sees that your life doesn't depend on her, the better off you are. With or without her, you have to fast track to that happy place.

As for the text, let it go. She may be testing to see if you're still there. Don't be over anxious to ease her fears of losing plan B.