Left Behind Newlywed

[Pluto]

Not much to update on; Haven't communicated with WAW much at all since last week. She sent me a long winded text to basically let me know she signed the paperwork to revoke her access to our joint bank account. I waited a couple hours and simply responded 'thanks'.

Other than that, I've been focused on me and what I need to do moving forward.

I ended up meeting with a lawyer, who I consulted with on some of the burning questions I had around separation agreements and how I can better protect myself, just in case. I'm holding off on the separation agreement for now, but was advised I am free to change the locks on the house - and that it was likely a good measure for both peace of mind as well as to prevent any potential issues should anything go missing (I wouldn't automatically suspect WAW is involved).

So now I'm working on getting a locksmith over to re-key my doors, then find a good dog-walker to help out when I have to work late.

Otherwise, it's been peaceful in the house. Quiet, but peaceful at least. Starting to sleep a bit better and feeling more relaxed, which is refreshing.

I still think about WAW and miss her from time to time, but I know that no contact (as much as possible) is for the best right now.

Thanks for checking in, Sandi! I really appreciate it.