Fair enough I really dont want to leave so I wont.. its about me now..
ok mrbond.. I trust you.. I have not sent long txt msgs today nor spoke much to her.. she kept texting me she was bored and everytime I had the urge to call I told myself no dont.. just wait to speak to her when you get home..
when I got home she was cooking and bayght me a pair of shoes.. so odd.. anyways I left her to cook and started exercising and then went for a shower and we ate together after..
She started cleaning after and I had a cigarette and sat at the balcony for a while.. then just went to lay down in bed for which she came and joined after.. I gave her a foot massage.. since she baught me the shoes but didnt tell her it was because of that.
Right for all that think (ahem mrbond) I dont read the book im on page 171 now uncommon sense technique 6..
Btw does the 180 work in terms of if she says lets get a divorce and I agree with her.. her demeaner will change and would want the opposite.. I read about the seesaw effect. And im just thinking.. correct me if im wrong...