P.S. H sent me a txt a little while after lunch saying "I enjoyed having lunch and talking with you." :-)

Trying to not have expectations but I'm definitely feeling like the tides are shifting. I think I'm going to back off for a while and see what H initiates next. I had been calling him on occasion just to chat but I think I'll dial back to calling just when necessarily (and if the convo naturally goes to chitchat, great, if not I'm not going to push it there). I don't want to push/pressure. I'm hoping at this point he's gotten a bit of a taste and is more and more seriously thinking about what he could lose.

M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14