The worst is that I swear she took a bonus check of hers to pay for this trip...it was supposed to be to pay off her debt!
YOU'RE not paying off her debt . . . are you?
You need to immediately remove her from any joint credit cards, Ox. I honestly can't for the life of me understand why you are so PASSIVE about this entire thing. Emotionally, legally, financially. Your wife reminds me of one of those nutjob Iranian mullahs, who keep telling us over and over again that they're going to destroy Israel. And then one day, we're all going to wake up and be shocked that they destroyed Israel (God forbid).
