Ben,

5 days ago, you responded that W has never mentioned D. Is that still true? If no, go to 1 below; if yes, go to 2 below:

1. Chill out.
2. Chill out.

Your first post was about W telling you she needed changes. Your last post about your convo with W was about her fear that changes wouldn't last.

Keep working at the changes. Keep working on you. Forget about her support structure and people telling her to get out. Even with the changes, W may not come back. But there is no way she's coming back without you keeping up with your changes.

You are in a good spot. W has detailed out what she wants and hasn't talked D. It is in your hands. You can do this.


me: 45 W:45
M 20 years
T 22 years
S14, S13, S11, D9
BD 2/28/14
D papers served 3/3/14
I moved out 3/15/14
MC start 4/2/14
I moved in 6/2/14
D suit withdrawn 6/30/14