I know this 180 and "do something different" is completely freaking her out because I am usually the chatterbox and tonight, on such a stressful night, I just let her initiate conversations draw answers out from me...just the one sentence ones.
It probably has her puzzled, but you are doing very well. If you have always been rather loud and too talkative, I believe you absolutely should have her pry anything out of you.
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Its like her cup is broken on the bottom so any love i try to give her keeps pouring out but the hope is that my DBs change me and then the water would be like good old molasses or honey and stay in that cup someday.
Very true. And while the DB board does not permit us to recommend other books (generally), the 5LL is one they don't seem to mind. But when you have a WAW, she is not going to want any love from you in any of those languages. The book is informative and you can practice on others, but I would not say it will help at this time, b/c of the condition of her heart. She has closed her heart to you. But one day, hopefully, you will have an opportunity to use the information you are storing now.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
