What to do

[Ben2010]

It seems that everyday now I break down into tears thinking that she will not come back. i havent even begun to detach. I can somewhat fake it in front of her, but im sure she can still tell. She told me that everyone she talks to tells her to get out of the R. That is a huge obstacle to overcome. For one she has told everyone what is going on. For two I think it will be very hard for her to justify coming back to me when everyone tells her not to. The only thing in my favor is her SIL that tells her that she has no biblical right for a divorce or separation. I thought that would be a big thing in my favor since her whole family is Christian, but it doesnt seem to matter. Im also second guessing whether I did this too soon or not. I felt good about it yesterday and right after I did it, but now im not so sure.