Working to GAL. Attending We can't talk right now because she keeps hurting me. She tells me how great the sex is with the OM. She tells me what they have and have not done.
Oh man! How you stomached that, I take my hat off! It was bad enough when my wife's friend couldn't wait to tell me.
There's nothing you can really do to change her mind here. She seems set on a path of marriage destruction while knowing that you'll wait forever sticking to your vows.
Ive done that. And a Wayward Spouse will just look down their nose at you even more. Show that you're willing to move on and she had better get her act together to discuss things with you. Once the OM is history.
These things happen due to a lack of respect. And will continue until respect is restored.
Suspected EA: Feb 2013 Bomb drop: Mid March 2013 Separation: Mid April 2013 (I fought for marriage) Filed for Divorce: April 2014 Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014