Thanks Grace. I saw your post on your old thread, but haven't had time to respond.

I was going through some old posts and saw some things that you had written to me and wondered: "whatever happened to her...wonder how her sitch turned out."

Me? I guess you could say I'm stuck to an extent. Need to get this job so I can start rebuilding. It's hard to believe that it has been 3.5 years.....

I'm currently living with my four sons in a tiny two bedroom apartment.

I am divorced and have no contact with alien at all. She has even turned mean and hateful towards our boys, but it is what it is.

Emotionally, I'm doing a lot better, but not 100% yet. I still have anxiety and moments of disbelief at times, but it is better.

Financially, garbage. Hopefully that will change WHEN I get this job.

Tad


Currently:
M 57 XW 58
Sons 39,34,32,30

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13