Thanks Grace. I saw your post on your old thread, but haven't had time to respond.
I was going through some old posts and saw some things that you had written to me and wondered: "whatever happened to her...wonder how her sitch turned out."
Me? I guess you could say I'm stuck to an extent. Need to get this job so I can start rebuilding. It's hard to believe that it has been 3.5 years.....
I'm currently living with my four sons in a tiny two bedroom apartment.
I am divorced and have no contact with alien at all. She has even turned mean and hateful towards our boys, but it is what it is.
Emotionally, I'm doing a lot better, but not 100% yet. I still have anxiety and moments of disbelief at times, but it is better.
Financially, garbage. Hopefully that will change WHEN I get this job.
Tad
Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13