Add another! My W's father treated her and her brother so horribly and caused her so much pain. Now, he is back in her life post going into MLC and he's now not only changed but can do no wrong! He has been pushing her to leave me and her kids just like he did for years now (since showing back up in her life wanting to make up for all the hurt he caused her)and has succeeded in getting her to file. Next will be his telling her that she doesn't really want the kids in her life either. Wonder what she'll do then?

Seems common that the MLCer ends up doing the very thing they always swore they would never do up until B-day. Whether it's cheat or D or put the kids through the pain they had to go through or give up without trying, different for each one but the same in it's the ONE thing they always said they would NEVER do!