More to your point, the messages going onto FB were a genuine accident. I have kept this a secret to all who know us. Not even my own family know anything about this.
I love her to much to shame her. I just saved off evidence because at the time, her friend that had encouraged her to do this was who I really wanted to expose. She was always very jealous of our marriage and days before the real bomb drop came, she was very keen to tell me a lot of things my wife had told her. Then she tried coming onto me. A real nasty piece of work. That unfortunately, although I have tried to tell my wife about, but she will defend her to the end.
Suspected EA: Feb 2013 Bomb drop: Mid March 2013 Separation: Mid April 2013 (I fought for marriage) Filed for Divorce: April 2014 Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014