More to your point, the messages going onto FB were a genuine accident. I have kept this a secret to all who know us. Not even my own family know anything about this.

I love her to much to shame her.
I just saved off evidence because at the time, her friend that had encouraged her to do this was who I really wanted to expose.
She was always very jealous of our marriage and days before the real bomb drop came, she was very keen to tell me a lot of things my wife had told her. Then she tried coming onto me.
A real nasty piece of work. That unfortunately, although I have tried to tell my wife about, but she will defend her to the end.


Suspected EA: Feb 2013
Bomb drop: Mid March 2013
Separation: Mid April 2013
(I fought for marriage)
Filed for Divorce: April 2014
Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014