If she would have gone to MC with me maybe we could have found a way to make things better. But her father refused to try when her parents divorced and it didn't work for them so she sees it as a waste of time and money. If moving was so important to her I would have moved and done what she is now but she assumed that I wouldn't do that. She assumes much about me, how I feel, what I want and doesn't talk and won't believe she is wrong about it even if she is.
Matt, while You do the same to her in this regard, (b/c most of your posts are your interpretations of her behaviors, and or what else she has done/said)
the main thing is, your posts are still all about HER. Tell us SOME GAL activity you are doing. Please do not say you have no time for anything but spinning about your wife. It's not true.
You're allowing this to consume your time/head space and energy. There IS a choice for you to make. Unfortunately it seems You're starting to choose being stuck. Is that really what you want to model for your ds? Did you say that is what your wife saw her mother do...right?
And how's the decision about an IC for you going? How about your d's seeing a counselor? Most insurance plans provide for this...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
