Thanks for the great reply TL. No, fortunately in Texas only one spouse needs to go to final court hearing, so I do NOT plan to go (even though H will be going with MY cousin the attorney). I'll try to keep it just like any other day. Maybe I'll ask a few friends out for a drink like you did, which is a perfect idea.
hugs to you and a toast to your refi application being behind you!
cczamo
M 56 H 52 M 13.5 T 15 S 28 twinStep Ds 24 ILYBNILWY BD 1/5/14 OW 4/11/14 Divorce petition efiled 5/5/14 Divorce final 7/8/14