You are not accurate when you make claims like: he is dating OW, when he is not & has never suggested that I date. <<< this just pisses me off. If you are going to cast an opinion, please be truthful.
Also I am not going to accept the scraps... did you not just read my post? If I wanted to do as such, I would have just hid from all the comments & not bothered to post TRUTH. Truth to which I want to be held accountable.
Xbf expects & wants to keep MM where he can control her. That was our old R. The new MM is at the very least able to "see" things now & is pulling herself back. Not accepting. He is behaving like a little boy trying to push to see what minimum standard he can get away with. I don't have to accept it, and I won't.
Thanks for your vote of confidence.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)