Originally Posted By: pilot
Originally Posted By: 1Wish


She says shes numb and doesnt have any feelings left at all for anything.. thats why she wishes I could move out for a little bit hoping her feelings come back and she can make a informed decision based on her mind and emotions as her minds confused and she has no direction.


She is telling you exactly what you need to do. Detach and go NC for a month. It will be the hardest thing you do, especially in the first week. Second week will be easier, third even more so. What you need to do is give her the space she needs without you in it. This way she can start to feel the emotions which will benefit you. It also gives her time to stop thinking about everything she doesnt like about you and remember the things she does.


So I should move out then and give her space, not everyone says this.. mrbond what do you suggest?

Last edited by 1Wish; 06/12/14 02:02 PM.

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