Hi Mach,
I think she thinks she is. I still don't think what she is doing is rational or reasonable but I can see that others could feel that way. She has become so much more focused and is now done being nice to me. Before she knew she could find a place, move in, etc. She was at least nice. Not anymore. Of course she was only that way in front of the kids. Just this morning she inferred that I would steal money from her in the future if she didn't wipe all her account numbers from our computer! I have never given her any reason to think I would do something like that! Something one of her D friends or her father told her to do. By the time she leaves I'll be capable of being an axe murderer in her mind. Never mind the 20 years of me being a stand up husband!