Hello everyone . I am in a bad situation . I found out on March 17 2014 that my wife is having an affair . EA and PA.I was crushed . It took me weeks just to be able to breath again. I ve done everything wrong according to Sandis list except i did not tell a sole about whats been going on . The affair started in Dec of 2013 and became sexual in early January 2014 . This is the story she has given me. Lord i miss my beautiful wife . She doesnt even seem like the same person she was 6 months ago .I tried to get her to break it off back when i found out and she did but she only lasted a couple days . the guy that shes been seeing is married but his children are grown . I still have two sons ages 15 and 13 at home . I snooped and spyed and found out things that kill me . i even caught them in bed . She said she wished i hadnt done that and now I wished i hadnt have either . She said she wants to be with him but would not elaborate . She does not want to hurt our boys but she did say Acouple of weeks ago she was going to leave when school was over so as not to mess up the boys schooling .Plus it will give us time to deal with this sitch . We still sleep in the same bed but she doesnt want me to touch her . She still wears her wedding ring etc. Back two months ago she told me everything would be fine and to just relax and we will get back to normal . So i tried to give her space and Time all the while worrying that this would just let her get closer to him . I was right . Now she has stronger feeling s for him . We ve been married 22 years , been together 27
