"I dont want this to come off as mean or anything, but I cant play these games anymore. It seems that we arent getting anywhere with talking because it just turns into a fight. I dont think we should talk anymore until you are ready to work on the M."
Why did you use "play these games" here? I don't see anything in your posts that reads like W is playing games. What games is she playing?
I think what you said above and the ending of your convo may lead to issues. She may think that you are putting it on her. The middle portion of the convo was well done. You'll have to stay with those points and validate when she is ready to talk again.
me: 45 W:45 M 20 years T 22 years S14, S13, S11, D9 BD 2/28/14 D papers served 3/3/14 I moved out 3/15/14 MC start 4/2/14 I moved in 6/2/14 D suit withdrawn 6/30/14
