Thanks for the shot to the head. It's well deserved. I find sometimes I need to be re-assured that it's a bad idea. When I stop even contemplating exposing the A is when I know I'll be in a good space, because that A status doesn't actually affect me. I am realizing that I'm not able to influence or control the situation from my end. And of course, I think control is something I was and may still be good at. This self reflection can be tough. Musings of a frustrated LBS, although, I'm starting to not see myself in that light. I prefer now to think of myself as a single father. With very little free time
Yes, agree completely. The financial conversation will be occurring within the week. I meet with the Accountant and the Lawyer next week, and then will go from there. Will be interesting and I need to make sure I allow her to present her concerns as well as myself. Will probably have her go first with a financial plan, and then see if we agree.
And yes, while it is foundering, I think I'm going to just leave well enough alone. Really liked Peter's post about letting something get big enough to destroy itself, really resonates with me. My main dilemma is my children, which is why I proposed sole custody for myself, so she could have all the time she needed, and I can see my kids daily. Of course I would like to think she will want access as well, and I would have no problems with that. I think a mediator will be useful for the next six months.
Just leaving the gym, off to go out. Thanks for the feedback as always.
