"This is obvious rationalization and blame shifting right?"
Yes. She can't take responsibility for her own f*ck ups. I mean you didn't force her to have sex with the other guy. And she didn't just fall on his d*ck on accident and get pregnant. That was all her choice as an adult.
"I think she wants me to pursue her. I didn't do it very well when we first started dating. I didn't do it enough when we were married. I feel like she's just waiting on me to make a move."
Personally I wouldn't.
"I'm considering flying out there for 24 hours to be with her. Somebody talk me out of this... Her mom and sister have been praying non stop about this the past few days. I don't know. I just feel like I should go."
I wouldn't. But if you do, only do it with certain conditions in mind. Or you could think of it this way. She wants to go with the OM, then let him have her. She's going to be a joy to be around in her state of mind. Let her be his problem.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
