Sandi2's 37 Rules

[Mat]

Mat, try saying something along the lines of "Well, I've been doing a lot of thinking, and while this is NOT what I would have wished upon anyone, I have come to the realization that I WILL BE OKAY no matter what happens. I still don't want a divorce, but for now there are some things I want to work on, just for myself."

Be a little mysterious, and no, not over-the-top HAPPY or anything, but . . . just "I'll be okay."

Make sense?


Starsky

Thanks starsky it does make sense. I just finished DR, and read the last resort pages so it's all coming together albeit slowly.