I feel it's a good idea. I've got a lot of things that I'm working on. I still wrestle with exposing the affair more than I have in a wider circle. I know it would have a large effect on the secret portion of the affair, which I think would force the issue. My W would also have to make some decisions, as she doesn't want anyone to know about the situation.
Of course, really it's not a good idea, and I need to just let it run it's course. From what I have been able to determine, it's on it's last legs. I assume the temptation is normal? I've felt the temptation and even written about it several times so far in my threads.
Going out tonight. Maintain a PMA and air of mystery when I see my W tonight, and then have a good time. My goal is to stuff my resentment and anger away, and successfully GAL. Did someone tell me to detach more??