Forgiven lazy husband - reconcilliation possible?

[rayzzz]

I've come to realize I don't want my H to stick around for the kids. I want him to be here because I'm so awesome. That should be what you want for your kids, too. If your wife sticks around (or doesn't) because of how the kids see things, then they aren't seeing the kind of relationship you want for their futures.

(Sorry if my tone is a little belligerent... It's that kind of day...)

Hey Maybell, the tone is excused (think its a db dialect I speak in often too). and you are right and encouraging...us LBS are fine catches.Your H is freaking blind to resist you.

Sure my kids will go through their process and it wont be fun for me to see either but gonna cover them with as much of my father's love as I can ...hard hard times but I am GALing out to a favorite coffee shop and re-aquainted friends tonight.