Blindsided and lost

[Ben2010]

All I can say is to be The Gold Bar here. The reason gold is so valuable is because its rare and shiny. The reason aluminum is cheap is because its plentiful and is often thrown away. Use this as a metaphor for your "time" around your H. When you withdraw, he will be able to see what it is like to not have you around. People dont like having things taken away from them. I dont think the MC is going to help at all with him at this point though. He might be better going to IC, but probably not willing to as he probably doesnt accept any blame.